nervous system healing

Real Conversations.

Real Accountability.

Real Change.

You’re tired of second-guessing yourself, playing small, or waiting for the ‘right time’ to share what’s on your heart. You’ve tried journaling, listening to podcasts, and mindset hacks, but you still freeze when it’s time to take action.

By the end of our work together, you’ll feel safe, grounded, and confident enough to share your voice and take the steps that truly matter to you, without the pressure to be perfect or ‘ready.’

My Approach. Your expansion.

I know what it feels like to stand at the edge of a new chapter…craving change, sensing that the life I’ve built no longer fits, but feeling too frozen to take the next step. I’ve lived through the identity shifts, the big pivots, the quiet voice whispering, “There’s more for you than this.”

I wanted something more aligned, more honest, more me—but fear had a grip on me. It felt overwhelming letting go of who I was in order to become who I’m meant to be.

That’s why I hold space for women in these in-between places. Because I’ve been there. I know how powerful and disorienting ‘becoming’ can be. And I know how to walk with you through the freeze—until your next chapter starts to feel not just possible, but safe.

The Becoming Freeze

I know what it’s like to know exactly what I need in a relationship, but stop short of saying it out loud. I’ve been the woman who over-functions, who people-pleases, who performs just to keep the peace…in friendships, in family roles, in love.

I’ve had to learn how to let myself be seen emotionally, how to speak from truth instead of fear, and how to honor my own needs without guilt or shame.

It isn’t about couples coaching. It’s about feeling safe enough to fully express yourself.

Now, I help women do the same - I know how hard it is to break those patterns, and I know how freeing it is when you finally do.

the relationship freeze

I know what it’s like to want to be seen, to build something meaningful, to lead with authenticity—and still hold myself back. I’ve been the coach with something powerful to say but too frozen to post. I’ve been the healer who second-guessed every offer, the creative who kept her work tucked away instead of sharing it.

What I’ve learned is that this isn’t a marketing issue—it’s a nervous system issue. That freeze you feel before the pitch, the post, the podcast episode, or the stage? I’ve felt it too. And I’ve done the work to move through it.

Now I guide women through it with deep compassion, lived experience, and trauma-informed tools. Because I know: when you’re stuck in the freeze, you don’t need a strategy. You need safety.

The Business Freeze

What You Get When You Work With Me:

Private calls that are designed to break through your patterns and rebuild your confidence.

Voice and text support between sessions for real-time encouragement and clarity.

Personalized tools and practices that meet you where you are (so no two journeys are the same).

Gentle action steps that help you practice being visible in small, doable ways.

Praise from coaching clients

  • “Working with Kim helped me to have the confidence to command the conference room, speak my truth, ask for what I want, and be able to respond rather than react with knee-jerk responses.”

    - Diane

    Business FREEZE Coaching Testimonial

  • “Prior to starting life coaching, I was in survival mode, running on autopilot. The darkness of my depression had consumed me. Through the months of working with Kim, I was able to finally, for the first time, see myself and life through a different lens. I now have effective and healthy tools to not only recognize when I’m starting to fall into old patterns but to change my thinking and keep myself from spiraling back out of control.”

    - Kayla

    Relationship FREEZE Coaching Testimonial

  • “I never thought I needed coaching until I came to a point in life when I was feeling stuck professionally and personally. Kim helped me break through my barriers and start to create a plan for my life. I’ve grown so much and highly recommend Kim to get you on the path you’re meant to be on.”

    - Liza

    Becoming FREEZE Coaching Testimonial

  • “Kim was a total game-changer for me! I was angry all the time and would strike out with very little provocation. Not only was I killing myself, I was making the ones around me miserable as well. I am a type A personality with a lot of control issues. She helped me identify what was causing my buttons to be pushed. Kim won’t tell you what to do, but she will walk beside you while you decide what is best for you. Having a life coach is all about you, focusing on your actions, your motives, your reactions, your responses.”

    - Sandi E.

    Coaching Client

  • “Prior to doing the coaching with Kim, I had a really difficult time talking to my daughter and relating with her. Every time we interacted, it usually ended in an argument. After working with Kim, I feel like I have gained tools that help my daughter and me communicate better and understand each other more. It has given me hope to have a better relationship.”

    - Becky R.

    Coaching Client

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